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Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts

5.18.2020

Protecting our Mental Health during Pandemic


As news regarding the Covid-19 outbreak continues to control the news report and millions of people all over the world—is being urged to self-quarantine, it has become consistently vital to give as much awareness to our mental health as we do to our physical health.
                                                                
It is necessary to note that heightened levels of anxiety, worry, and fear are common responses to the global coronavirus pandemic. The virus worsens feelings of doubt and causes one keenly conscious of the wellness of themselves, their kids, household, and society in general.

Stressful or traumatic experiences place people at higher risk for not solely weak physical well-being, though poor mental health consequences, like PTSD, depression, and anxiety. You may see that people around you or yourself are more tense, moody, or angry; feeble; afraid or troubled; hopeless, down, or pessimistic. Sleep may be disturbed and less stimulating. Doing social distancing may cause you to feel abandoned or detached. You may have less patience than before in case you are at home with kids.

How to Protect the Mental Health

Cut back Screen Time

While striving to stay informed regarding what the most desirable way forward is in social media, all possible situations, falsity, and infoxication can develop a downward twist. Try to manage your social media time to a minute or two every day, and when you are online, seek to communicate with people or view stories that make you happy and won’t be adding to your anxiety.

Your brain is developed to fix the dilemma. And it automatically hunts down stimuli in your surroundings to recondition the feeling of anxiety. The brain then eliminates, changes, and theorizes all incoming insights that do not follow with your current emotional beliefs or disposition. Therefore, in case you consume a notable amount of time watching the news, it strengthens more reason to fret— hence generating a chain reaction.

Know That This Will End         

Even though as of this moment, the pandemic feels abounding, we have to put in our mind and our children that it will not be. Even when we don’t know the precise interval, the demand for closures, social distancing, and the life-altering occurrences aren't eternal. Acknowledging this causes it a lot easier to endure.

Connect With People

Human interrelation is an essential factor for mental health.  Having social media platforms can promote a feeling of uniformity and give helpful outlets for relieving stress and sharing feelings. Ensure that you're giving this a priority, regardless if you’re connecting with others via an online game, video call, phone call, chat, or face-to-face.

Get Info From Reliable Sources

It’s best to remain informed about what is happening though there are merely many things happening day in and out. And it can be hard to recognize what is truth and what is a twitter chain message when you add in the inaccuracy. Expert recommends lessening your social media usage and simply connecting to notable resources to stay updated on important and accurate news.

Exercise with the Family

Social isolation can prompt somber feelings and even despair. Exercise is reliably acknowledged to battle these feelings, therefore use in-home devices and search workouts through the web.

Have a regular bike rides or walks in case you are not quarantined, particularly for kids. I recommend exercising at least three times weekly for a minimum of half an hour. Established a daily, scheduled times for workouts.

Self-Care     

When anxiety intensifies, it is natural for us to emancipate our concrete self-care habits, prioritizing other projects—such as household and work tasks. Still, this is the point we have to follow self-care the most. Therefore establish a few times for yourself daily, despite being shrunken back, to create something that makes you feel great. Regardless if it's listening to your favorite music or podcast, playing with your pet, reading a book, or journaling. Additionally, don't forget the crucial self-care exercises such as daily physical activity, having enough sleep, and eating healthy.

Talk to Professionals

At this time, numerous mental health experts are offering teletherapy while travel and personal communication aren’t advised during this pandemic.  Try communicating with a mental health specialist even though you haven’t before. Ensure you have continuous access to all medicines you need.


Bear in mind that the feelings you may be experiencing are common responses to stressful situations. Acknowledge that things are different as of the moment and people are adapting. Prioritize what’s more essential and understand that it’s fine to allow some things to go here and now.

Seek to remain positive and work this time to kick and hang around with your spouse or kids, work things you’ve been delaying, like interacting with your creative side, acquiring a new skill, or taking an online class. Keep in mind that things will return to normal and this too shall pass.

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9.13.2019

Just the Way I Want


Some expect me to be “perfect” but I am not



 
For nobody is..
 





 I have my mistakes, weaknesses and fears

But I’m so contented for whatever life I have now


And it doesn’t matter where I came from

My title or my family name

It’s always my dignity as a person that counts


Others may see me as a STONE

Not a gem

But I don’t give a damn

 

I know who I am









How I care for people I love

What I think and what I feel

Me, myself and I

Not perfect but just the way I WANT IT…
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9.09.2019

BE, AS YOU



Sometimes you just have to forget the rules
Follow your heart and see where it takes you


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Never apologize for saying what you feel
Because that’s like saying sorry for being real
 
Never regret anything you said or did
Because at some point, it was what you wanted
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True strength is being able to hold it all together
When everyone else is expecting you to fall apart..
 


 
 
 
 
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5.13.2019

HONEST TO GOODNESS


Girls Vs Society : How Girls Lose their True Selves


Changes and challenges in life are overwhelming the development of girls during puberty stage - from a simple life of childhood to a more complex and broad life of adulthood. They are losing their real individuality. Life of girls is more concern with their weight. They want to be perfect because of their fear of rejection.

Girls are being asked to have a particular choice: to be authentic or to be loved.

Being authentic is being real. It is accepting the truth concerning herself - believing what had happened and what is currently happening.

If they choose to be loved, they will abandon their true selves. If to be authentic, they are to be abandoned by society.

When girls reach puberty, they choose to be loved. Thus they prefer to be socially accepted. They are being trained to be kind rather than to be honest. Society identifies a bitch as someone who speaks freely. Girls are being trained to be a lady and to be visually accepted by the mainstream. Not being attractive is equivalent to being scorned.

In early adolescent, girls learn how important appearance is in defining social acceptability. For girls to success, being attractive is a necessity. The culture dictates girls to be feminine.


Girls can fight back. Parents may protect them except they have limited power. Girls must understand their culture. Being smart is the answer. Being wise will holds their authentic individuality.





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5.12.2019

INTO THE RAGING STORM


Girls from Latency to Puberty


Girls in age 6 - 7 are what Freud described as the Stage of Latency. Girls in this period are the most adventurous. They are not reluctant to try everything. They don't mind what others will think of their actions and behaviors. They have absolute freedom.

But when they enter the adolescent stage, everything seems to shift. They're like fighting themselves in a raging storm.

Girls age between 7 - 11 struggles during this period. Lights are turning off. Glasses are shattering. Leaves are falling. Every girl is trying to survive in this so-called massive storm that she is encountering.


During this battle, the wholeness of girls is being fragmented into pieces.  Problems encountered can have an enormous connection in their adult lives. This is one of the reasons, in order to help a person, why most psychologist relay on the childhood memories of the person. During the adolescence years, girls underwent a drastic change - physical, mental, emotional, and social change.


Choice plays a vital key here - a choice that may lead them to the brighter side, but if left unsolved will result in greater chaos. So before the storm, make sure everybody is prepared. During the storm, everybody should be intact. And after, everybody should help.

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